Our intimate relationship has the power to unlock joy and confidence that could not be achieved on our own. Take care of it carefully!
A pro-relationship orientation over a pro-self orientation paradoxically will benefit you more. You will not “lose yourself” if security is guaranteed. You will have more resources to achieve your personal goals.
What is the purpose of being together? What guarantees can you two provide each other? This discussion is important as novelty and excitement of the courtship phase transitions into a sense of stability and permanency in the relationship. Read More
How do you want your friends and family to view your relationship? Have a goal and work towards it!
Become aware of your partner’s vulnerabilities. With this awareness, you have more agency with your partner. If you avoid triggering vulnerabilities, there will be less conflict and more harmony. Read More
Tell ’em You Love ’em! If you live with an actual person or an animal that you treat like a person, tell them you love them in the morning instead of just slogging your way out the door half-asleep. Read More
Take a certain amount of time everyday to ask your children about what they like and what they are interested in without giving them any advice or criticism about it.
Are you finding it hard to initiate sex? Choose an item to do the talking for you and your lover. It can be a small pillow or a block with one color on either side. Pick the color that indicates you're in the mood and leave it in a place for your lover to get the message.
Create a love haven. Decorate your bedroom with sexy party favors. Light two pink candles in a safe place. Candlelight flicker is romantic and sets the mood.
Date night is mandatory for keeping the passion and romance alive. Agree to dedicate at least one day each month for just the two of you and let nothing interfere.
Appreciate YOU - Embrace You. Embrace the Love within – You have to look at yourself and send love to yourself. Tell yourself you love you! And mean it. With all your faults, you are perfectly you so quit listening to that voice in your head.
Let go of limiting habits and damaging patterns or beliefs that are not moving you forward in your life, relationships and spirit. We don’t always have to be right. Learning to master your reactions and actions are key to you strengthening your core essence.
